
it doesn’t matter
when someone says,
it doesn’t matter
it’s not necessarily
an obstinate
self-defeating,
depreciating,
or rude thing to say
it can be
liberating
when one knows
what matters is
recognizing
what doesn’t...
the worrying,
second-guessing,
soul-crushing
defeatism that happens
when we try to fit in,
be accepted,
follow the rules,
play the game
be noticed…
in fact, not mattering,
where invisibility is a gift,
anonymity, sublime
is where what
matters most,
breathing
loving
being
happens...
the rest
is an illusion,
smoke and mirrors,
the sum of a life
wasted
~kat
I’m actually in a good place…where nothing matters but the things that do. With age comes wisdom and a general “I don’t give a fuck” attitude! When life gets shorter, you realize life is too short! It is glorious place to be!!! Oh my… did I just say/write fuck?!!! Well I don’t give a “you know what”! 🤪
November 17th, 2022 at 1:07 pm
Hi Kat, glad you’re in a good place and to see a post from you. As for the f… word, you’re only human! Take care
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November 17th, 2022 at 1:54 pm
Thanks Di. Hope you are doing well ❤️
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November 17th, 2022 at 5:26 pm
We’re good thanks Kat.
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November 19th, 2022 at 8:01 am
Good to hear in these crazy times! 👍🏻😊
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November 19th, 2022 at 2:14 pm
🙂
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November 17th, 2022 at 1:34 pm
YES!! And as for the f-bomb? It fits 🙃
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November 17th, 2022 at 1:54 pm
😊
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November 17th, 2022 at 4:55 pm
Perfectly liberating and it often helps, even if there is no-one around to hear it. I’m so glad to hear you are in a good place. 🤗🤗
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November 17th, 2022 at 5:01 pm
I credit my newest rescue dog, Theo, who insists on howling with me first thing in the morning and at night before bed for helping me find my voice. My little dog joins in. we three happily howl, heads thrown back, full throated for a few minutes. It’s a great stress reliever! As they say, who rescued who? 🥰
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November 17th, 2022 at 5:42 pm
Wonderful!
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November 17th, 2022 at 7:34 pm
Very meaningful poem Kat.
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November 19th, 2022 at 8:03 am
Thank you Sadje. I believe this. It’s just sad that it took me so long to see it.
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November 19th, 2022 at 8:23 am
You’re welcome. Better late than never
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November 17th, 2022 at 11:20 pm
It’s best not to worry about things that are not in our control. Thought-provoking poem, Kat. Sometimes swearing can be liberating. Take care
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November 18th, 2022 at 10:24 pm
thank you Shweta. I agree…it’s good to let go. 😊
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November 19th, 2022 at 11:18 pm
Indeed. You’re most welcome ☺️
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