While sitting on my porch this morning I caught glimpse of a single leaf clinging to a fragile tree limb that had magically shapeshifted herself into a bird. Can you see it?
I had to smile. I get it. We humans do our own shapeshifting of sorts. The inevitable fading of our youth often motivates us to attempt to delay the aging process. We slather creams on our faces to soften our wrinkles, apply color to our graying manes, squint our way through the morning paper rather than don bifocals, and make silly, age inappropriate fashion statements.
But as I reflected on my friend, the leaf-bird, I couldn’t help thinking. Maybe it’s time to stop clinging to the tree. To spread those wings. To ride the wind. To loop and twirl in glorious freedom and joie de vivre. A spring and summer spent bursting with life deserves this final hurrah! Through it all she weathered storms, sheltered hatchlings, danced in the sun and added her sparkling voice to the wind swept chorus of her sister leaves. That leaf, like me, has one magnificent dance left to dance!
And I am reminded in this moment to embrace my smile lines. They are evidence of a happy life. And my furrowed brow lines too, for I have weathered many storms and survived. Grateful am I for bifocals that help sharpen my view…and keep me from bumping into things. And oh how I love my comfortable clothes…bright colorful sweaters and stretchy blue jeans that loosely drape my softening body, and also my practical flat shoes.
There is wisdom in embracing each season of life…to settling into autumn and relishing in that final hurrah still left in me. Oh yes! This is my season to let loose in unabashed confidence. To appreciate all that has brought me to this place of authenticity. Winter may be coming, but for now the wind is calling me to dance and it’s going to be fabulous!
Oh…and a disclaimer…I may still indulge in coloring my hair…but not the blond of my youth. This season definitely calls for red!😊
kat – 28 November 2015
November 28th, 2015 at 1:00 pm
To embrace aging is not a common attitude in today’s society. That despicable ’40’ and being ‘over the hill’ are not life-enhancing and may increase the formation of wrinkles. Love your joyful celebration of getting older in this writing piece. Here’s to dancing, with love of life in our hearts, no matter what age we are.
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November 28th, 2015 at 1:04 pm
Thanks Olga. Here’s to life in all its seasons! 😊
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November 28th, 2015 at 4:16 pm
I love this post very much.
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November 28th, 2015 at 4:22 pm
Thank you Chioma. It’s amazing what we can learn from nature. 🙂
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November 28th, 2015 at 5:50 pm
There’s a definite benefit in being “over the hill”. Having struggled to get up it, you are suddenly greeted by a wonderful view and the going becomes easy! Love this piece!
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November 28th, 2015 at 5:52 pm
Thank you Meritings! I like to think that the best is yet to come! 🙂
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November 28th, 2015 at 6:10 pm
i have just lst night dyed my hair red!!!!
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November 28th, 2015 at 6:12 pm
I love it! Go girl! 😊
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November 28th, 2015 at 7:56 pm
😉
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November 29th, 2015 at 12:02 am
I have not embraced the gray yet, but I’m happy to be my “natural” dark brown again after many years of reddish. Now if I can only let go of my long hair, which I habitually wear under a cap or hat. I think my parents have only seen me with my hair down once the entire time they have been here, lol! (And yes, I do see the bird in the leaf!)
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November 29th, 2015 at 3:29 am
Hair is such a funny thing! I received a botched coloring over a year ago at a salon that made my hair break off and fall out. It has taken me until now to grow it back long enough to pin up if I wish. And I am determined to let it grow! 🙂
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November 29th, 2015 at 8:08 am
I am really loving that photo, it’s amazing Kat! Wonderful post! yes I agree embrace the smile lines!
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November 29th, 2015 at 8:11 am
Isn’t it cool the way the leaf looks so much like a bird!? It really caught my attention! I love seeing things in a different way. 😊
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November 29th, 2015 at 4:50 pm
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November 29th, 2015 at 9:59 pm
Great photo and analogy to aging and how we try to shape-shift. 🙂
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November 29th, 2015 at 10:00 pm
I’m guilty. 🙂 but learning to ease into aging gracefully the older I get! 🙂
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